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Leo in L.A.'s avatar

What a fascinating idea, I may be brave enough to try this...

We of course, have several things in common. lol

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tarotbyphil's avatar

I have to say it has been more enlightening than I expected... but, of course, it has also brought up some stuff that it wouldn't be appropriate to post here... so you may want to be feeling robust when you do it 😀

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Patty's avatar

This was such a great read, thanks for sharing Phil! I really appreciate the mix of deep reflective storytelling with some humor mixed in about life life-ing. The queen of pentacles showing up twice to represent your mother is powerful! And we share some attributes i.e the perfectionism…something I’m working on!

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Thanks for stopping by, Patty, and for your lovely comments, too! Yes, that Queen of Pentacles really jumped out at me when I pulled these cards... and the fact that her confidence seemed to grow along with me.

Ah... perfectionism... it can be challenging can't it? I have half an idea about doing a reading on this very thing... I think Tarot might have some interesting stuff to say about it :-D

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Patty's avatar

Ooo please do!! I’d be very interested in reading it! So, so challenging. It pops up when you least expect it, it feels like.

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Yes, I think it's time! 😄 Can I ask you when it challenges you most?

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Patty's avatar

When it sneaks in….here I am thinking I have it all figured out and later realize I’m falling in my perfectionistic patterns again. It’s specially hard when I make a relational mistake (rather than a work or school mistake), I’m my biggest critic 🥲

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Hmmm... Thank you 🤔

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WisdomTree Astrology's avatar

Thank you Phil for writing this post. I like this idea of pulling cards to stimulate retrospective reflection on various phases of life. This is going to be a new opportunity for me to try. Most of all I think that this is a wonderful way to illustrate the relationship one can have with the tarot. Thanks for your vulnerability to share this series with us.

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Hi Shawn, lovely to e-meet you and read your generous feedback above, which is very much appreciated, thank you for stopping by, reading, and commenting :-)

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Forest Monarch Tarot's avatar

I love the idea of pulling cards for overall periods of your life! I’ll have to do that. That’s what is so great about tarot, is that it can help you process things in a way that not much else can. This is also fun to read, after having done your destiny card! When I read “a 98% mark for a Technical Drawing examination,” I’m thinking, of course, you’re the Jack of Clubs! ♣️

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Ah, I'm glad you found it fun to read, and, of course, having done my destiny card you'll have seen the match I missed whilst trying to keep my head above draft 5! 😀

I recommend it, I am learning a lot about myself, which was the object of this to begin with, and you may find the same, too! 🕯️

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tomrambler319's avatar

I am always astounded to read how honest, pure and forensic you are not only in your account of your upbringing but also with the tarot. Thank you! I learn a lot from you and thoroughly enjoy your writing. Blessings 🙏✨✨

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tarotbyphil's avatar

What a lovely compliment, Tom, thanks very much... I always really appreciate your support, especially on such a personal type of post as this one, which I get quite nervous about posting 😅

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OffbeatBarbara's avatar

Fascinating process Phil! I'm enjoying your illuminating journey. 💡x

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Bless you! You'll start recognising some of it soon 😀 I'm really glad you're enjoying it 😘

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OffbeatBarbara's avatar

Yes, I thought I might...

I've never really been attracted much to tarot (as you know), but this process appeals a lot. Brave of you to go public too!

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heather marie morse's avatar

so glad you chose the tarot factory!

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Yes, it took a while, but I found it in the end! Thanks for reading and for such a lovely comment :-)

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It's Hell, Actually's avatar

Brilliant. Our dads do sound similarly...supportive.

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tarotbyphil's avatar

Hmmm... similar experience, huh? 🤔

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It's Hell, Actually's avatar

You bet. That's where sarcasm comes from.

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